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05. Tithing & The Blessing Of Abraham 2

Bishop Dag Heward-Mills
January 13, 2025 2h 1m

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Camp Title - The Blessings of Abraham. Machaneh Collection - 61. Preached in 2009, Australia (Sydney). Bishop Dag Heward-Mills is a world-renowned evangelist, bestselling Christian author with over 100 books, and leader of the United Denominations, present in 100+ countries. Through his Healing Jesus Campaigns, thousands have been healed, and millions saved across Africa and beyond. As you follow this podcast, may you begin to know God in a way you have never before! Don’t forget to click the follow button and turn on notifications.

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Welcome to track #5 of the blessings of Abraham to drive a nice car so that my members will see something like rather receive. I'm wanting to travel. This is best in the name of Jesus. Now then let's me look up on you and say something like this. So there are always two sides. Sometimes the immunity side and then this other side, the vision. People need to see the vision. It's something like this. I said it's something like this. Your future is something like this. His descendants, your descendants will be blessed. One day when you are dying, you lie on the bed and you see them. A certain man, he didn't have any children to inherit him, so he called for his pasta and his lawyer. Come and stand by there as you will die. Somebody asked him, why are you calling for your pasta everywhere at the same time? He said, I want to be like Jesus. I want to die between two thieves. See how people think about pastors, lawyers. Are you seeing something like how you something like that? That's why you must take away setting pictures. That's what your family. God gives you a new family. Yeah, because maybe your family is only divorcees, only girls who

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Welcome to track #5 of the blessings of Abraham to drive a nice car so that my members will see something like rather receive. I'm wanting to travel. This is best in the name of Jesus. Now then let's me look up on you and say something like this. So there are always two sides. Sometimes the immunity side and then this other side, the vision. People need to see the vision. It's something like this. I said it's something like this. Your future is something like this. His descendants, your descendants will be blessed. One day when you are dying, you lie on the bed and you see them. A certain man, he didn't have any children to inherit him, so he called for his pasta and his lawyer. Come and stand by there as you will die. Somebody asked him, why are you calling for your pasta everywhere at the same time? He said, I want to be like Jesus. I want to die between two thieves. See how people think about pastors, lawyers. Are you seeing something like how you something like that? That's why you must take away setting pictures. That's what your family. God gives you a new family. Yeah, because maybe your family is only divorcees, only girls who have marriage out of wed child, out of wedlock. Marriage is not proper second wife dead, dead wives. I mean, bad pictures of of you. Your mother is a bad example of a wife that you never somebody will not have her type to marry. So because of that, we will put you in another house so that you get a good picture. This is how it's done. This is what happens. Yeah. One day I was advising a certain brother about how he should conduct his marriage. So I told him myself, Bryder, you must do this, you must do this, you must do this. Then he was looking at me. You know, sometimes you can see when somebody will not obey. How many have ever told somebody something, you know, that he will not obey? I said him, brother, I said him. Pastor was advising a certain brother to obey. He was telling him do this, do this, do this. The brother, instead of obeying, he lifted up his hand with this and he said lifestyle change. He was not speaking professions into his lifestyle, lifestyle changes instead of him to change his stuff into the four dimension, 4 dimensional lifestyle and the lifestyle changing the four dimension instead of changing something in his life. Are you listening to me? What was I telling you before? Yeah, yeah, yeah, sometimes up with you in a certain family so that you see, because you realize that your family is not a good family that only bad examples women who beat their husbands. Your mother has beaten your husband. No, there is a certain, There is a certain tribe in Ghana. A certain tribe. Did I acquire you? Pray about it. The language they are, they are like fighting now. One day I met somebody who was not from that tribe. The person was an E way, E way. But this tribe is gone. This is the quarreling challenge my tribe. So for many years I thought that the E way was a gun. The E way driving person lady was a gun driving lady. Do you know why? Because of her attitude and her posture and her way of talking with aggression. So I always thought she was from the country. And one day I found out she's not, she's from the But you see, she has lived among the young people all her life, so she has seen the stars. Something like this is and not because the Airways they are, they are usually very nice. They are very nice people. When you meet up again, you become friends. It will easily become your best friend. All my life in ways have been my best friend. Secondary school, secondary school, university, they were always my best friend. Even now, my best friend outside of our churches, they are very nice people. Now this sister has been transformed from because she has lived among the guns and she has seen some stars say that it's something like this, how to behave like this. Are you listening to me so that God takes you out and put you with your auntie and instead of going to learn from your auntie, you are going to parallel with them and make trouble in the house instead of learning how to behave so that your stepmother is a better mother than your real mother? Yes, your stepmother is your mother was a lioness, but your stepmother is a is an antelope gentle. She's a damn sign. She's gentle with your father, with your daddy. She has a ways, you know how to talk to him, how to relate with him, how to encourage him by your real mother, your real mother lioness, your fat tiger. So God sometimes take you, put you with your stepmother, put you with your auntie, put you with your some other person to give you a vision to take you out of your tent. Look, read it. I'm talking about Abraham's birthday. God Tony, come out of the tent and look, you see, you can't see what God until you see where you started. So many stars. I want to tell you something like this. God take you out and be sure you see. It's like this. Sometimes I wonder about the Daniel leaders who have all been trained in Oxford America days that they cannot bring it, even though they've seen that this is how a country can be, this is how a nation can be like. How that vision, the 1st President of Canada, you know. So my friend, you see my brother, you see my sister, Imran's blessings are he knows. And that's why God wants to bless you, take you around the world, show you different families, show you different situations, show you a blessing. This is how to behave. Some of us brothers. I was telling you, I was talking to his brother, I was advising his brother. I'm telling you before I told you the lifestyle, I was talking to my real life that he would not choose. And I was at first, I said, do this your wife, don't you make tea for her? And he was looking at me. I realized that he was trying to speak to the four dimension, that lifestyle should change in the dimension of the four dimension. But I decided to tell him something. I decided to tell that I have not told somebody before. I said, listen, let me tell you something. I didn't learn it from you. I didn't. I never saw my father do this, in this, in this. You want some? I saw, I saw. I saw all these. I learned it from somewhere else. Yeah. You see your natural family, that is a limitation. And sometimes God will show you somewhere else how to learn something else. That's why he'll take you out of the come out, come, come, come. Look. You see very different Everybody go out and look. Go out and look out and protect and see what you see. Something like something green, something blue, something nice, something wonderful. Go out and see your life is something better? Is it beautiful out there? It's something like it's peaceful, you get it something like this. It's nice. It's beautiful. Wow is it beautiful. Are you getting the picture? But don't be like that near president who the picture doesn't stay in your heart. Try to look at this for a long time so that you get the picture. You see? Is it something nice? Is it nice? Is it beautiful? Is it green? Is it nice? Yeah. Colorful. Something like this. That's your future. See the sky far away? Something like this. Wow. I see Abraham's place is falling on you. I see Abraham's marriage falling on you. Abraham's. Rich is falling on you. Abraham's future falling on you. You are survivor. In the name of Jesus, receive it. In the name of Jesus, give a lot of shout in a club offering. You didn't come out, did you? Get it from here. Something like this. Hello, hello, hello. This is so powerful. Is that mic on? Is it on? It's so powerful. Is that it's so much in this. You know, I was just thinking about even after that when Jacob also came, it looks like he saw this principle. That's how he used to get levers sheep. He showed them the sheep said, look, give birth to something like this, then they give birth. They should give birth to something like this. I realize that the principle is so powerful that she can give birth to something. So we must really get the pictures, you know, and just look at the pictures of something enters us. I'm so blessed. Hallelujah, man, something like that. Wow. So try to tell you. That's why you see, that is why you you'll be surprised. You'll find out that a certain type of person doesn't have any paint in his house, a certain type of low class person. There's no painting in your house. Have you noticed that depending on how you are, there's nothing you are. There's no act work in your house. So afterwards there's nothing like that. You see, you don't know that it's very important sometimes. Tranquility, peace, arts, creativity. So you see something creative. Yeah. When you go to international hotels, then every room has to paint some kind of a picture, some class. Yeah, a certain class of painting or something beautiful. Any places you see the picture. So it gives you something shows you this room of a picture all the time together. See mountains, Regis lakes, that's what he's a certain type of person who plays golf who needs to seek God's creation, trees, grass, nature for a change. It gives you some picture feeling through. Idea chapter 15 Let's go. Then he believed in the Lord, and he reckoned it to be righteousness. The second, the next thing. I hope you are getting the different points. Who is the man who inherits Abraham's blessings arriving the Bible says in verse 6. Then he believed in the Lord and he reckoned it to him as righteousness. That's why we are sons of Abraham, because we are sons of this same concept of believing and it is reckoned to us as righteousness. Alright. And he said to him, I am the Lord, who brought you our of all of the Chaldeans to give you this land, to possess it. Amen. Now having faith in God right will greatly, greatly bless you. But it is important to have faith in a particular picture if you want to be and you want to have faith. A man of faith. Yeah. To be a man of faith, what you need to do is you need to see a believable picture. Because when the Bible says he believed, he believed the picture. He believed in the stars that he saw, you see. So when he believed in the stars, he gave it. Somehow it was believable to him. And that belief is what propelled him. And that's how he became the father of faith. So get a picture of what you want to be. That's why I don't have pictures of Michael Jackson now, because I don't want to be Michael Jackson. I don't want to be like Michael Jackson. What do you think? In my office I have a wall of Jesus, pictures of Jesus, because I like to be like Jesus. I see Jesus, I want to see Jesus have pictures of Jesus, famous photographs of Christ's ministry doing different things that he did of different stories that he told. See of the certain things I want to see to get it. Are you there, are you there, you are not there. And then so get a believable picture. Now you go and get a picture of Bill Gates and realize that I mean, this guy is 50 something billion dollar and that's the picture that you are seeing. It can help, but you may want to get something more believable. You see, what I'm trying to say is that there is something that you can become in your lifetime. There is something you can be. You get it. And that is a picture that you need to see and that is what you believe. You must believe. You must believe God, You must believe in the vision. Hey, you must believe, Amen. When I see the patriarchs, the people that I'm following in the ministry, I've seen them survive. So one of the things I believe in is survival, that I Will Survive. Hey, I've been through many things as you've seen in this time, you may not know, I've I've been through many sorrows. Is that I've seen so many sorrows that how the song goes sing and sing for me. I've seen so many sorrows. I've been to many places, OK, But I've been to many things. And I've seen that through it all, God can help, and God can make me survive. Is it a powerful thing? Yeah. So I believe in survival. I've survived this, survive this, survive this, survive that, survive every crisis. I believe God give me the upper hand every Christ. I see that picture. I see myself suffering, but I see myself surviving. I see myself trembling by the end of the day. I see that I'm standing. I see myself struggling, but at the end I see that I want. That's the picture that I have of myself, of surviving, of making it, of making it to the end. It's a picture. It's a possible picture. Amen. Possible picture. Hallelujah. So what picture do you see of yourself? What picture do you see of yourself? Maybe your mother's pictures are a good picture. It's true because our parents are human beings. What picture is your parents picture, your mother's picture, your father's picture. So my God gives you another father. That's what I was trying to explain. That brother who was making me reach into the he was trying to read the four dimension, you know, like, look, it's not that something that I saw in my house. It's something that outside my tent I saw something better or I saw something different that I also liked from Amen. Are you there? I mean, most people don't know how to treat a woman. Most brothers, it's not real. Many African brothers are Bushmen. Now. When I was facing the ladies, we were, we were excited. Many African brothers are Bushes. You don't know how to go to restaurants. You don't know, but you see, if you go to seven countries, like European countries, there's a culture of going out to eat many African brothers. You only know how to sit down with your cassava. You see? Yeah, you say it's a waste of money. Singapore one day, one day a second pasta invited an African pasta to come for lunch. What a message. So he ordered delicacies. She went by Bushman. You only know one way food. Dumpling, Dumpling. Three times. A second pasta invited an African brother to come and eat. You took him out to eat any part that that brought. Take this, the white man who had invited me just himself? Don't you like any of these things? Please. Do you have rice and chicken? Rice and chicken? Rice and chicken. That's why I said that. You see, you are better international team. Your culinary skills are limited. Your culinary latitude is very small. You are the rest of international and God brings you to His house to show you. Come, everybody come. I see something different from what you have been used to. Can I see something else? Not cassava leaf and component soup and fufu, Baku every day, Baku. Because of that, you are puppuing three to four times a day and the septic tank is getting full because of him. Yeah, and 2P must be able to eat Indian food, Italian food, American food, British food, food. Do you have rice? Do you have rice and chicken? So many don't know how to treat a lady of to go other. The food we are going to is not because of getting food. It's not every food that you eat that the food will be coming to the coming out section. You know, every time you did that, you did that go too much question with something out. Sometimes you go to people of fellowship and for the experience. You know you don't want it, you don't want to even learn how to treat the wife or to treat a lady because women, they like things that are not substantial, that are not substantial, have no meaning that have just something like nothing that that is what they want. Just like a man also wants sex in our in our vibration thing. None. Are you listening to me? So you need to learn how to be a Brother Christian International because someone would take give you a vision everyday. Rice. Yeah. Recently I was having a lunch with Doctor Chu. I sat on the table. Then he came in with the dedication. I was coming. They made him sit directly and they brought the food and they brought everybody the food and there they fought mine and I was there. There's that import with different animals in it. Then they then they brought me chop my they brought me chopsticks. See, you have to know how to blow chopsticks. If I take my chopsticks and I started, I can eat rice, 1 grain chopsticks. If I was eating then they they they they noticed that they started. I did you learn how to eat? One of my friends taught me in Malaysia, so I know how to give you chopsticks. I can eat plant not epic, I can pick it like fruity and you realize even golf it makes these ties and you are dead. You have to know how to take your wife. Come on, let's go and sit down just for now, it's not a waste of money. You see, when you are young, you would think that some things are a waste of money. When I was young, I was getting my SO wedding is a waste of money. The main thing is to marry, but after I realized that I had made a mistake because to the woman, what is value is not thinking about the marriage, thinking about the day, the one that we waste money and we just do nothing, just moving around, showing off and just I mean moving. But it's important because that's what make the person happy. We have to do it. The one that one is over. Then what is it that makes the man happy too? But you see the brothers, you don't want to do what makes them also happy. And God is trying to show you the stars so that you will see. I have dine and wine with my wife everywhere, everywhere. And my children too. Now, everywhere. My children cannot say that they they have not had certain experiences with me. No, they cannot. Swimming. That I leave my wife. I go swimming with my children, not with my, only with my little daughter. Two of us will be swimming. Yeah. You will never see me. Yeah, that's some of you said you are good husbands. Or you are asking whether I have time. So bring your notes and bring my notes. The rest of certain things, yeah. So brothers and sisters, all these are part of called giving you a new vision. You see, Africans, we don't know how to swim. African sisters. That she she will buy swimming but she cannot swim. The white husband will be swimming and the African should be sitting there. If she cannot fit inside the swimming, she will be like a balloon. Is it true? That's not true, but is it? Most of us don't change in our lifetime. All these things have changed. You think people would change it? All right, where are we believe God is showing you a picture that you can believe that is credible, that is possible. Amen. Now so he said, Bring me a three-year old Haifa and a three-year old female goats, three of rat tell of that Gavin pigeon. And he brought all these to him, and cut them in teeth. Lay each half opposite that is not cut of birds. Birds of prey came to lie down, and Abraham drove them away. Now when the sun was going down, and deep sleep fell upon Abraham, the behold terror and great darkness fell upon him. The Gulf said that Abraham no forsaidden that your descendants will be strangers in a land that is not theirs, where they will be enslaved and oppressed for 100 years. But I will also judge the nation whom they will send, and afterward they will come out with many possessions. As for you shall go to your fathers in peace, and you will be buried at a good old age. That's a blessing. That's one of Abraham's blessings. How many receive a good old age and what you go to your father's in peace? I receive going in a good old age, and I receive going to my father's in peace. Amen. Wow, good old age. Good old age is our Abraham's presence. As for you, we will go to your father's in a good old age and you go to your father's in peace in a good old age. Wow. See, I receive a good old age. I walk in a good old age. I will experience a good old age. I thank God for a good old age. In the name of Jesus, a good old age and good old age. You know, these days it's not so easy to believe for a good old age when you see death all around, you see all kinds of things all around. But I want us to see that picture in our spirits and in our hearts, a good old age. And do you believe in me for a good old age? Do you believe God is going to give you a good old age? And sometimes when you have that belief in a good old age, you see certain things. God gives it to you. Yeah, God gives it to you. Yeah. Sometimes God shows you somebody whose age will be your age when you die and whose life will be your life strength. You have probably seen that person already. You know what Paul? Paul said, He wrote to the Corinthians. He said you are a letter not written with me. You, you are a message. So sometimes a person is a message. He says you are a letter not written with him, but written with a ministry. So people are messages to you that God should receive this, that's you. So that shows that only you see this person, that's you. So that he shows you somebody who has married three times and he shows you this is you. We have buried 2 husbands, three wives, 6 husbands. It's a picture, but it takes the Holy Spirit to remember even and to recognize. I call you a spoken to you like somebody. It's on your heart. You feel it in your heart. God is showing me something. Wow. Do you understand what I'm talking about? How many understand what I'm talking about? Wow. Hallelujah. I believe many years ago when I read a little story about Church of Prayer because God was showing me a picture of a church that also studied in Ghana and that became a worldwide church and that stayed together as a family even after the founder was gone. It was a picture. It's a picture that that's what made me form the Shuffling conference. It's a picture that I see that even when I'm gone, even without me, the church can run and effectively be governed. As I'm preaching right now, Shuffling Conference, which is the governmental conference of the whole church is going on right now. That's nothing I don't have anything to do with. They are governing the check. They are transferring pastors. They are saying this, do this. They are informing them about this. They are taking decisions, different things. All I'm not involved in it is the conference that controls the whole church. So it's a this is a picture that I have seen that you can even finish your life. You can even die or even you can be alive, but he, he was alive. You see, the man was alive and he handed over the church. There was a first chairman, another chairman. He was alive. When he finally died at a good old age, 100 or a couple of 100 people went to Scotland to bury him from Canada together. But he handed the church over and moved on. It's possible because a church does not need to live around a test but go beyond a personality that is church that we are all in. Are you listening to me? Amen. So is it you have a picture? So if you have a picture of staying married to your husband, you know there are certain things you are going to do because that is your picture. Are you there now? It came about when the sun had said that it was very dark. There appeared smoking oven. Amen. And on that day the Lord made a covenant with Abraham. Saints, your descendants, I have given this land from the river of Egypt as far as the great river, the river Euphrates, the Kenite and the Kezhite, and the Kadmonite, and the Hittite, and the Perisites, and the Rifen, and the Amorite, and the Canaanite and the genocides, Amen. Are you there OK Genesis chapter 16, Sorry verse 18. On that day the Lord made a covenant with Abraham saying now the next thing that is very important in becoming and receiving the blessings of Abraham is covenants, Amen. Covenants. What is a covenant? A covenant is something you don't. You say I wouldn't do it. You say I wouldn't do you don't do it man. What do you think? Is that a good idea? Because in that day, God made a covenant. Now for any high level of like, you know, equivalent relationship, always that covenant, you get it. Now the sign of an unbeliever is breaking of covenants. Hello, are you closing your eyes? All right, covenant breaking, all right, is characteristic of the unbeliever. It's one of the marks, all marks. That's why unbelievers don't do anything without writing. They are very experienced writing and signing. Africans. We we, we like to talk. So OK, I'll come, I'll do it. But they'll write. Why people like to write it Signing? Is it not true? They don't base it on relationships, they base it on what is written. You get it. So agreements, you need to be able to make agreements. You need to be able to say I'm going to marry you, then you marry me. You need to be able to say till death has due part and only death will separate you. You need to say I belong to Lighthouse and I'm going to be in Lighthouse forever. You need to be able to say, you know, there's that kind of covenant that you need to be able to make. If you say if you tell someone, I will do this, you do it. I remember there was an old man in our church. One day he came to see me and he's one day he came to see me. He said to me I am going to my hometown and he said I do not think he will ever see me again because I am going to back because he was on pension and he said I don't think I will come back. That was when we were at the old church. Now he said in my office when he said that I felt so sad as a young pastor because this man had been so faithful in our church. He said, oh, is that over here? You know, you know how you're a young person, you have an elderly man who can be your father who will be in the children. I felt so sad. I'm not going to see him again. So he said, I want to ask you for one thing before I leave. I was wondering what is he going to ask me? He said I want you to promise me touch my thing. He said promise me that when I'm here that I am dead. So when he said that, I was so moved that I immediately said I myself become I thank you when you die. Hey, I didn't know what I've committed myself. So this brother left and went to his home that far away. Many years later I had a message that this man had died and his bar away in his hometown and I immediately remembered my promise that I made to him. Hey, what a difficult promise I have been. Now this man had instead of died and soon after he left, it took a long time for him to die. And so yes, Father, we never heard of him. Then he went and joined. There's no charismatic check of any kind of church there. So he went and joined this kind of angelic churches with garments and different things. So I was saying that Obama, they came to inform me that this man is dead. And I said to someone and say, you know, I promise this man that when he dies, I promise this man that when he dies, I will come and bury him. So I call myself. I have to call. So I went, I fool all the way this time, even though he was in this garment whenever I got there and everything and I was there. I mean, whatever I was allowed to do just by being there. But I, I kept my way to the dead man because I promised the old man. I said, when I hear that I myself, I will come and bury. You see, we are talking about people who say something and, and they never changes. Yeah, that's the kind of person, that's the kind of person that God wants to deal with. So when I say I, what's your name? Collect, collect you, we say collect you, I love you. It means I love you. Say forever means forever. If if you become very big, very slim, tall, whether if you have a baby, you don't have a baby, doesn't matter. That's why I love you. I love you. That's that's what, that's what the covenant is. Now covenant is often tested because, you know, things change. Like I said, this guy, he didn't die. I thought he would die soon because the way he came to sitting out and I'm going to and you will not see me again. And now I started feeling sad. So this is I'm more expensive to come to me and you say, you know, I'm going to my village. You know, like, OK, you don't worry, you don't worry. God will help you. I don't promise. I don't make this kind of promises again. In fact, recently I saw somebody who was terminally ill and I wanted to tell the president, when you die, I myself come back. I remember this one. Let me not make such promises before you realize I'll have to cancel even a crusade. Well, keep my covenant and my promise that I have made to somebody. Are you listening to me? So are you the kind of person who can say something? So I say you are my father and your father and the father. When things are going well, a lot of my things are not going well. Did you get it? Oh, Pastor Yammish, I love you. The one person Yammish rebukes you. And who does he think is he Just come, just say hey, Logo, let's not at first. Oh, we are with you. You know, whatever because you're fully behind you. We are supporting. Now suddenly, you see, he shouldn't say anything about you. He shouldn't talk about you. He shouldn't say what he has to say. He said he has to sing your praise and worship. Are you God? Are you God nice? You say we worship you, we love you. Everything about you is nice. Everything about you is good, but me, the Father, Pastor Peter didn't do that, doesn't mean that he cannot do it. New king, new law, every new leader, every new pastor does what he thinks is good. And as he's led by the Spirit, everybody has a different way, different style and different approach. And all of them work. Write my process and say today smile at 6:00 PM and 7:30 PM start preaching about Abraham's blessing 745 Change it into a prayer. 8:00 do this. Wear black on on Sunday, on the 21st, wear green. Well, find this. No, there's nothing like that. We allow them to have their own style and their own flavor. Are you listening to me shake your name. I say are you listening to him and answer. What did you say? You do your word. Your word is worth nothing. It's like, it's like hot air. The word means nothing. You can't believe it, huh? And many times people become insecure because they believe that the man will not keep his word, especially when they change a little. You know, ladies, because, you know, every pregnancy puts on a little bit. You know, your pregnancy, you get on between 12 to 18 kilos. Yeah, when you try to keep it at 12:19, OK, OK. I don't move it in there, please. Yeah, making the seats more your big cartoons. Move it in there, I shouldn't say. You have to buy 2 tickets to come homecoming because you occupy 1 1/2 one point 8. Yeah, yeah. You see, sometimes when you become a little fat or you change, but women change fat a lot. One day I saw a certain lady very fat. I was walking into the jet. Then one day I saw her picture before she got married. I don't know if I can get a slim girl like her in a child. You'd be surprised change so much. But you see many of them feel that a man not he would change his mind, but a good man will not change his mind become bigger. He just say this is a bigger mattress for me too. I'll change your mind because it's the peasant inside that you like, because I want the peasants outside a good money inside and every style of size or whatever you take care as an advantage. What are the three advantages of this size? It's fantastic. So ladies, don't don't get worried. You like him, isn't it? Don't be like him. With you, are you not happy? Change your mind at all. Is it not fantastic? Is it not amazing? I said to him that you are not nice. And when you attack him, I said, oh, why? When you see these little little girls in the church coming Smiley, No, maybe I'm nothing. You know you, you would have thought that when an older man whose wife dies, he will go and marry some 16 year old often. No, even Bishopsaki whose wife died, he's not marrying a little girl. The lady's marriage is 40 years old and above. He's not going to marry. I mean some some strength that doesn't work in the right way. That's a new Comer with bright ideas that lead to nonsense. Got to marry somebody who has suffered. You have been through something. Somebody can start with you looking for breast and bottom. Thinking that way, how many understand what I agree with what I'm doing, what I'm saying about some thoughts? How many brothers want them to think good things about us? Oh, express something good, you get something good. Is it powerful and fantastic? Amen. Some compliment, compliment. Compliment. Compliment, compliment. I love you for me. This love for me. I'll stay with you. This I'll stay with you. I'll never turn against you. This I'll never turn against you. You are my father. This you are my father. You are my daughter. This you are my son. You are my son. It always means it will never change. And the lighters and the lighter. You cannot just be moved around by the nearest my age. You see, that's why all people. This is the more mature you are and the more mature you are, things don't move you around Sure, you can make some comment. One day I met a certain elderly man. He was almost 80 years old and he said to me after I he said to me I AM 80 years old and I will never change. He said I will never change. He said. He went on. He said I will never be born again. And then he said I am an Anglican and I will never change my age. I will never change. Later on, I invited, he came for another wedding about 10 years later and he gave his time to Christ. Yeah, I watched him giving his life. But that time he had to charge smaller. He had to lose some weight, you know. But you see, there's a certain people say at my age, you know, I was talking to somebody, the person who said are you going to say at my age, which church am I going to at my age, in other at my life of maturity, we church again at my goal. The more mature you can you stop skipping and jumping from church to church, Tell someone at my age I'm not, I'll be with you. Whatever happens. You are connected to me. And that is how I feel towards my pastors. My pastor who died yesterday, you know, has made me so sad. And even though I didn't see you often and I don't talk to him, I feel so sad. That's make me so because you see, I am connected. That's how our churches, it's a family. Something that happens here, it has happened to us. That affects everybody. That's why we encourage you don't stay far away and say I cannot come. You have to come, have to come. Hope coming must come. Shuffling conference. You must come. I don't shuffle it. You must come. Travel and come. You say come out of your tent and see something. You will receive lesson. Every time I travel, go speak to me. Even when I was coming. I stand by the Muslim. You are hiding your Bible, Mr. Bishop. Put your Bible under. So I don't think you are religious. Look at him. Look at him stupid. They bring orange what they see, what they tell me when I'm talking to my God. Orange juice starting like that. Only look at statue. Every time God will speak to you, show you something, Amen. There's somebody sitting by you. Can you make a covenant so that you can have Abraham's blessings? Thank you. I miss that to your feet and not sitting, but can you make a covenant? Can you make a covenant so you can have Abraham's blessings? Abraham's blessings? I am blessed in the morning, I am blessed in the evening. I am blessed in the evening. Come on, sing it. So, Ryder, what time do we have to wait for six? Hey, what is the term? What? What we got about 45 minutes. What? Glory be the God, OK? Are you being blessed at your Australian camp? Blessings of Abraham Something like this. I said something like this is the future. Wow. You see this guy something like this type of car. You see this house is something like this house. You see, this type of marriage is something like this type of see this type of church is something like this type of. You see this type of missionary, something like this type of missionary. You see this type of anointing is something like this, something like this, something like this, something like this, something like this. Wow. Hey man, sit down now. This next time is what we call if you want to have the blessings of Abraham, what we call managing your mistakes. Amen. Managing your what? Your mistakes. It's Abraham am had made no mistakes. All right. If everyone had made no mistakes, he would be a little different from you and me. But because he made some mistakes, you get it. He's he's, we thank God for his mistakes because it sort of brings him a bit closer, you know. Have you ever wondered why God's favorite character was not Joseph, but David, the madra and adulterer? Have you ever wondered the perfect guy? Do you remember he was tempted, He didn't fall, but God loved David. Is he a perfect life? Many times is not really perfect, there are many hidden evils within Amen and God has a way of seeing through apparent protections and sees the reality of the heart. Amen are you there? So where are some people missing when these these chairs are empty? Some guys, where are they? I want everybody here. Glory be the guy. Glory be the guy, right? We're going to wait for everybody when everybody's here and I'm going to start, OK, for the church. And in this particular case, when you are serving together, it makes it very difficult to say you are paying tithe and you need money for this as healing crusade and maybe as a member of call by your side and other things that you have to do to help in the church. So my question was why? Why are all Christians or all churches not paying tithe? So that makes it easier for if somebody moves from one church to the other, she knows he or she knows that this is my responsibility as a Christian to play tithe. The reason why all churches are not paying tithe, The reason why all churches are not paying tithe. Hello. OK. The reason why all Christians are not paying tithes is the key. All Christians have a little different beliefs. That's why there are even different churches. That's why it's not just one universal church, isn't it? Some speak in tongues, some do this, some believe in that. Some believe is for free on Saturdays, some is on Sundays. Some believe in this. And so hiding is just another thing that varies from church to church. But you see, that is why I would say to you, it's something that I believe that is is a blessing for you, not the church. So even if I was not in this church or even if you are not a user now, I would advise you to be a tithe paying, because when you don't pay tithes, you will not even you think you will give, but you will not give much. That's it. Because God will never be the priority. You think that oh, I'll give whatever in the end. God. Yeah. But you can't see him and you can't see him. That's how he is. You can't see God. So we have written a book about it. When it comes, I hope it answers the questions. Amen. Have I answered your question? I believe so. You have to have some part of your money that is a separate because you are a lady. You want to go to town and buy some singlet panties, dress shoes. You do it jointly. And so from your section, Yeah. So what I'm saying is that there is a point at which you are an individual. I don't know that that is almost some people's way of living. It's like everything is together. Do you get it? So that is also one way that I find it very cumbersome. So I think that you have joined yourself in hand so tightly that it's making you making a lot of difficulties for you. Because as you grow in as a Christian, in your Christian life, you're going to find out that you have different extents of beliefs in different things. Do you understand? So for instance, my wife is working with me, but I'm blessed that she's working with me because don't all wives can work together with the when you are married, you just look at beauty and other things that you flow. Then later on you see that not knowing that she doesn't believe it to that extent. But you see, when you were young, you just oh, I love you. We shall. Oh, we, I will. You, you Then you realize as the years go by that there are differences in the extent to which you believe. That's why a lot of pastors have problems because you can't really see the extent to which somebody believes something. Do you understand? Are you there? Are you there? So very, very, very important that you have that separate. I have noticed if I ask anybody, should I give this money? I don't give that money again. You understand? Yeah. So even my wife, if I discuss with my wife, I will not give. So I give independence, she also gives it. I pay tax, she pays tax. So you have joined yourself so much that it can affect because you believe different things. Is that also? Oh, yes. OK. Then modify the counseling again. Upgrade the counseling. We, we, we, we can't see you that you could have a joint account, but you must also have your individual things that you do. That is it. So that thing must be done. You get it? It's not allowed. You must have a joint account. Then on everything. Joints, same shoes, same day. Same day. Yeah. You cannot express your faith. OK, The next one, managing your mistakes, Genesis chapter 16. Now Sarai, Abraham's wife, had borne him no children, and she had an Egyptian maid whose name was Hager. So Sarai said to Abraham, Now behold, the Lord has prevented me from bearing children, please go into my maid. Perhaps I will obtain children through hell. And Abraham listened to the voice of Sarah. After Abraham had lived 10 years in the land of Canaan, Abraham's wife Sarah took Hagar the Egyptian her name, and gave her to her husband Abraham as his wife. He went into Hagar, and she conceived, and when she saw that she had conceived, her mystery will despise. Sarah said to Abraham, Be the wrong done thee be upon you, Amen. Hallelujah. But Abraham said to Sarah, Behold, your maid is in your power, do to her what is good in your science. So Sarah treated her harshly and she fled from her presence. Are you there? Yeah. Now the Angel of the Lord found her by the spring water, by the strains. He said, hey, that Sarah's me, where have you come from and where are you going? And she said, I am fleeing from the presence of my mistress Sarah. And the Angel of the Lord said to her, Return to your mistress and submit to her authority. Moreover, the Angel of the Lord said, I will greatly multiply your descendant. There will be too many to come with me. Amen. Behold your child, you bear a son, he'll be a wild donkey of a man. Then she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, Amen. So he got bought Abraham's son. Abraham called the name of his son Omega, bought Ishmael. Abraham was 86 years old when he bought Ishmael. Now, what was Abraham's mistake? The mistake of what? What? What do you think it was? What? What was the mistake of Abraham? Yeah. He's not going to God first. I'm not asking him. Now I'm going to God first and asking him, was it a mistake to have this son? Did God say that was a mistake? I was a mistake? Why was that the mistake? No, he said, you'll be a father. He told her later. You're going to have a baby. Not here. You sure? Yes. I sent you to sleep with me, Abraham. That's what. Just use the mic. Please use the mic. The other mistake was the fact that he said. He is. I used to preach the athletes. Is that my fault? He said as a leader of the family, he said to say Roy that. She is in your hands. And really it should have been in his hands. He should have made the decision and said she used to stay. But he said to Sarai, Hagar is in your hands. OK, so different analysis. Anybody else, right? Yes, my dear. Now who are the King James Bible? Abraham listens to his wife. Shouldn't a husband listen to his wife to sleep with the maid? Shouldn't sleep with the maid? Now what is sleeping with the maid thing? I think when you look at the culture in the Bible times, I think sleeping with the maid, the maid was seen as someone who helps the wife to do her duties. And I'm sure a lot of modern wives would like to have this kind of assistance. I don't think so. How many time they have, headaches they have, time they have. I mean, I think that the modern wives would really help. He thinks so, isn't it? He'd like to help so Well, how many of the wives think that it would be nice to have some such legal help? No, not babies, but just assistance. Yes. The other thing is the fact that he reverted back to the Babylonian way of doing things, not the way that got one of him, because that was what the Babylonians used to do. That was multi wives and the fact and the fact that he he reverted back to the way he was rather than separateness, separating from your family, the culture, he actually went back to algebra, OK. So you see, in those days they separated sex from the institution of marriage and from the concept of even love. You get it. Because when Jacob also had his wife, Sarah and Leah, Rachel, you know, it's like if I would give this maid, I'll give my maid to you, I'll have one with my maid. So the maid came into hell not only with sex, but in having the children in the 1st place. You get it. So that I don't think is, I mean, when we say it in the modern way is you slept with your maid. It really sounds obnoxious. But I think in the context of whatever was their culture at that time, you get it. It is a little different. So it's easy to say you're made, you get it. But I think perhaps right here you have a, a, a, a, a, a repeat of the first ever mistake of all mistakes, the mother of all mistakes. You said you have a kid James Battle, where is it? Genesis chapter 6, Genesis chapter 16 and let's read from let's read verse 2. So read it out, OK? The law for bearing children. OK, OK. And Abraham hacked to the voice of Sarah. OK, Holy Bible there. Go to Genesis chapter 3, verse 17. What does he say then? And on to Adam, he said, Because thou has hearkened unto the voice of thy wife. Exactly the same phrase that is used on Abraham is used by God explaining to Adam his sin. And therefore the consequence says, ABBA, now unto you, because and thou hast hakened unto the voice of thy wife, this, this, this, this, this. And the Bible says, And Abraham hacked unto the voice of his wife. So you see, listening to your wife is a good thing. For the Bible says husbands love your wives, and when you love somebody, you listen to the person. One of my wife's desires or things that she likes to do is to chat. My wife can chat continuously. For a long. Time. And because of that, you know, there's nothing like boredom or lack of a story. She has endless news and stories all the time. Do you get what I'm saying? So I watch television without the sound or very good sound, and she talks. Are you listening to me? So it is, it is good to listen to your wife and to, you know, relate because there there are some men who you know are killing their wives because they do not listen to their wife or this chat. They don't chat with their wives. You see, one day expecting us back, he came to the camp with his wife and he opened the door for his wife and he he asked his wife to sit down. So his wife sat down and then he closed the door. Then he told his wife, he said, you see, my darling, when a husband, when a man does this or husband does this, there are always 2 reasons. But in your case, none of these two reasons apply. He's a serious husband. He said #1 when a husband opens the top for his wife to sit down later, it's one of two reasons. Number one, I doubt it the wife is new or the car is new. But he was explaining to her that in this case none of the above, the car is not new and the wife is also not new but he's still opening the door. Sit down A1 husband. Either the wife is new or a car is new. But in your case none of this apply. Are you listening? Amen. When you see husbands and wife chatting or a man moving with a girl and they are chatting a lot, 2 things Either the husband is new or the man is new. The wife is new. Either the wife is new or the husband is new or the boy is new or the girl is new. One of them is new. So a lot of husbands and wives don't, they don't relate, they don't talk. I'm not talking about that. That's not what I'm talking about. Because he should. One day a certain wife was not happy. She was not happy at all. Do you know what? Her husband was driving her crazy because her husband would not talk to her at all. The the man is deaf and down in the house and she wants somebody to talk to and she wants to talk. And her husband said I did not enjoy talking to you because I don't enjoy your topics. I don't enjoy your disgust your your your the the taste you you talk about how and frivolous and the wife was crazy. You get it. But you see, you have to talk to your wife, Amen. Otherwise you're making a mistake. Amen. Are you listening to me? But that is not what I'm talking about today. And I'm laying this foundation not because I've lost my mind, but I'm laying this foundation because what I'm about to say, the higher He goes spiritually, the more you must be very careful to obey the voice of God only. And if you make the mistake of getting married, pastors, but Jesus didn't marry. So what you married is you realize that you are different from Jesus. The higher you ask, virtually the more God is doing things through you and needs to be sure that everything is telling you and doing through you is happening because you you said Him and you listen to Him alone. So the higher He goes spiritually, the more important it is that you listen to God. Now the great mistake what God has entrusted the whole universe to you that He has created the thing has been given to you and now the one who put you in charge is now no more directing affairs, but this woman is now guiding you or making you do something I tell you is the greatest reason. It's like if I leave you here as the pastor of Lighthouse Chapel and now instead of following the rules and the instructions that come from Lighthouse Chapel, you are following the rules and instructions that come from Redeem Check of God in Nigeria. And we are following the instructions that come from Google God International Church from Jerusalem. Were you here when we said Pastor Peter here? Were you here all the times we have spent money to come here and we have been building this church, making shepherds, appointing persons and do all this. You just get up and now you are trying to guide the church from another and say we don't have this, we are doing this, We are doing whatever we will react to you because you are you are pulling another voice. We want to be a Baptist, go to the Baptist Church. We want to be a Methodist, go to Methodist. Every church is good. There's nothing wrong with them, but this is not something that being guided by Methodist ways. So as soon as you start to hack into another voice when you are very, very important person as far as what God or what what God has done or what God is doing, you are the critical person through whom any voice can come. You change everything you see in Lighthouse. If I change something now, the whole church will change me because I'm the founder and I'm the Bishop. I'm the presiding Bishop. I'm the final authority. I mean, physically and humanly speaking. Yeah, that's right. You see, it's not. I was not appointed by anybody. Nobody appointed me in the church. Nobody put me in my position. Do you get what I'm saying? So, yeah, so I have a lot of authority I have to make the church a prosperity church, Dominion church. So we need church, orphanage church, any I mean idea, it can go here, here, here. So that I listen to very, very important. Now if I start to now listen to another voice, no matter how darling about that voice is, no matter how sweet and how gentle and how beautiful and how soft it, everything can get upside down. Now Jesus experienced the same test that Adam experienced, Abraham experienced, Jesus experienced. You may ask who was Jesus wife? Jesus wife was Peter was Peter in the sense that that was his dearest and closest person. Your wife is supposed to be your dearest and closest person. Our pastor who died just died. His wife was just telling me that her husband calls her every day in the morning, every day in the afternoon, every day, every single day. She said my best friend has gone. My only friend in this world is gone. That is how marriage, which is a very good he was he is the first chief marriage counselor of life. In fact, our book model marriage one has made a lot of contributions and he did a lot of the marriage counseling. Yes, he's the I mean, he was our principal marriage counselor of our church foundations. Do you understand? And he had he had a very good example. So he said that, but this she told me. But this morning he didn't call. This morning he didn't call. I thought maybe I was asleep or something and not knowing that somebody called from the UN so that the person was also crying. Sorry to tell that your husband has been killed. Yeah, but I'm giving an example that is like the the voice that the, the relationship is supposed to be your dear. That's why I told my darling, my dear, your dearest, your best. So your best, closest, nicest person is the best disguise for a voice. Did you hear me? I said your best, closest, nicest, sweetest is the best disguise for a voice. And Satan has often used that voice so he did it to Adam through the voice of his wife eat some of the the fruit. I think you both of us had told him God had said do not eat it. It's about God said that you not eat the other God's wife and then he listened to his wife, but he was not listening to his wife. But where's that his wife doing the words of the devil, even the words of the devil himself and the same words are applied to Abraham. Abraham's wife said do this, you know, and he did it. Now Jesus wife in quotes said to him, you get it, do this. Are you listening to me? Who are Jesus? What Peter? Peter said you are not going to the cross, don't go to the cross. Jesus has not got the problem. He had just preached about the prodigal son, the man on the way to Jericho, the the attitudes and what how will you be saved? You cannot be saved by those nice messages. You are saved and watched by the blood of Jesus Christ. So Satan was attacking the foundation of the salvation of everybody. He was trying to make it that nobody will be saved again. And you see, Jesus had the highest form of descendment and was able to descend that no, even though I've chosen you as the rock, you are Satan today. But very few pastors husbands are able to distinguish when the voice of Satan is coming through this sweet dearest best. But if you fall ahead, God will punish you. Yeah. God has punished people for following their wives. You lose your life, you lose your ministry. You follow your wife. Lose your ministry. You lose. Follow God. I've told my wife many times. I said I will not follow you. I promise, I promise. I will never follow. I will follow God. I'm determined the Spirit not to follow a woman no matter how nice he is, what he is, I will not follow you. I told him over and over and I'm detecting like that I will never follow hell, follow God. If what God leads me coincides with what he wants, then she's blessed me if I was following her love you here today. Do you think that Jesus was on the cross? His wife was standing there. You are going to die. So what? She would say what? What do we do? What about the children? What about our future? What about our home? I'll be alone. That's like he said he didn't marry any woman. And why he didn't marry any woman. Here comes Peter, who is the rock. I said no, no, no, no. I cannot be. You are not going anywhere. Even Peter said you are not going. How much? My wife Peter, the man, he says he won't die. How much more the wife? What do the wife say? That is why when a man was taking Isaac, he didn't have any meeting. Let not don't describe anything just to Isaac and sacrifice him. Are you listening to me? Amen. So ladies and gentlemen, you must now those of you who are under pressure from your wives saying this, saying this, saying this, saying this, you might be able to be like Jesus said no Satan, Satan, I will not follow you might be able to tell about I will not follow you if I have we didn't leave you, I will leave you. It's true. Jesus, any man who comes ask why do those scriptures apply? If any man come unto me and hate not his father, OK, his mother, his brothers, his sisters, his wife, hate his wife and his children and then yeah, his own life also, he cannot be my decider. So why does that scripture apply? In what cases we apply such a vest? You see why our ministry can end? Because you no, you cannot believe that such a scripture must be applied today when the Bible says husband love your wife, you see, but Jesus still loved Peter after he says Satan, then he continue to give instructions. OK, now we are going to build the church. OK, OK, you have to do this, you have to do this, you have to do this because if Satan, man is the problem, but the person is nice. So how to balance the two to both rebuke and then to laugh, or both to reject and then to laugh? It's not a small thing. And many people have lost their ministries over this principle. Are you listening to me? So that is a great mistake. But you see a mistake. If Peter, if Abraham had not made a mistake, then perhaps we could have said that he was perfect, that he made a mistake. And he continued, you understand, to follow on with the law, Amen, As you continue, so the way you manage your mistake, you know it's not to give up, Amen, Amen. It's back to press on. And you see that Abraham is like each problem that came up, he tried to find a solution. Do what you want. OK? Send her away. OK. She's come back. OK. No problem. We are flowing. You need to decide to continue to serve Abraham. Never stop obeying God in spite of his mistakes. Because even after you've made a mistake, there is the will of God in that mistake. Amen. Are you listening to me? Yes. Many of the will of God is created by mistakes, you understand. Yes, many of the things which are the will of God are created by mistakes. Amen. The mistakes that we make many times lead us on towards course. Will, yes, and many of the unfortunate things leads many times to God's will if you have faith because the Bible says that all things work together for good, Amen. All things work together. I have made many mistakes in my ministry, Amen. And that is why I am very protective of young pastors. These are pastors who are beginning because I have learned that when you make mistakes or you do wrong things or you make mistakes, it's not the end. Almost everybody who is even here, some of you, you were vagabonds in other churches. It's here that nobody knows your past. That's how you are. Nobody knows you. If people knew you and their attitude towards you will be different. Not only that, they don't know you. You are sitting here as a mystery, a strange woman nobody knows, and you realize that sometimes the same person who has fallen into sin cause a lot of problems. That same person tomorrow is the best person. Sometimes that problem was actually part of, you know, the will of God. Do you get it? How you are supposed to be? That's what I did. Amen. OK. Are you listening to me? Are you there? You see the strategies to keep us around? Amen. Is it powerful? Yeah, so, Pasobe, you must try to obey the voice of the Lord. Now this she hack into the voice of her. Why people hack into the voice of money? Any other voice that's strong in your life? Because sometimes you are married to a woman. She doesn't have a strong voice. She doesn't mind anything. She flows with this. She flows with this, she flows with this. It will never be a problem for you, but maybe an associate or maybe finances or some other strong voice in your life will guide you. And every time you don't follow God, you get into heaven. That's when your problem starts. You must follow God's voice, and God will bless you because you follow His voice. Amen. Look, I'm doing the things that I'm doing because of God's voice. Amen. God has shown me what is fruits for me, and so I'm trying to do that. I'm trying my best. Wow. the Crusades and the books and different things and the churches, I'm trying to follow His voice. And I'm trying to resist other forms of guidance that are coming to me from any source whatever, especially if it becomes a strong and prominent voice in my life. Nobody should have too strong a voice. That's why a man of God must wait on the Lord. There's a song which says we must wait, wait, wait on the Lord. We must wait, wait, wait on the Lord. Learn our lessons in His timing. He will tell where to go, what to do, and what to say. Amen. Genesis chapter 17. How many are going to manage your mistakes? Well, Amen. Now later on you find Abraham managing his mistakes even more cleverly. Amen. Because we will not be able to get there in this camp, you must turn with me to Genesis chapter 25 and you will see the management of the mistake a bit more clearly. Genesis chapter 25 verse one. Now Abraham took another wife whose name was Ketura. She brought to him Zima. I hear she was 26 years old. That is not the Bible. Junction Median, Median, H BAC and Shua 6 children. I tell you Ibrahim was very active and Junction became the founder of Shiva. And the sons of Dylan were assuring, and Leshuthem, and Le Mumin, and the sons of Media were Efman, Efra, Hanok, Abida, Elda. All these were the sons of Ketura. Powerful times. Now all, now Abraham arrived, gave all that he had to Isaac, but to the sons of his concubines Abraham gave gifts while he was still living and sent them away from his son Isaac eastward to the land of the East. These are all the years of Abraham's life that he lived 175 years. And Abraham breathed his life and died in a ripe old age, an old man, and satisfied with life, and he was gathered to his people. Amen. That his sons Isaac and Ishmael buried him in The Cave of Machpelah, in the field of Ephron, the son of Zohan, the Hittite facing mammary, the field which Abraham purchased from the sons of Heath. There Abraham was buried with his wife Sarah, and he came about after the death of Abraham. That God bless his son Isaac. And Isaac lived in Beer. Lahai Roy. Amen. Now you need wisdom. You need wisdom to manage your mistakes. Your mistakes are already created. Amen. But you need wisdom to guide you to sort of manage it. You can't kill the mistake. If you killed the mistake, it would also be another mistake. So when you make a mistake, you need wisdom to money. Now instead of leaving Isaac to be killed by all his brothers whilst he was alive, Abraham gave everything we had to Isaac. Now all the other sons, while he was still alive, we gave them gifts and send them away. Go bye. Bye You. Go. Bye. Bye you. Bye. Here. Take this. Go. Bye. Travel. Travel now I'm here. Travel now. Don't stay here again. We transfer them to different countries. That was wise. If you have kept them there, they will have fought. You see, the eyebrows are only there or the eyelashes are only there because of the eyes. So when you remove the eye, there is no need of eyebrows. So the children are only united because of the father. So when you remove the father, you may see that a lot of the things that were there because of the father are no more necessary. I said we don't know. We don't give you. What was holding us together in common is gone. We all look after him, but now he's not there. And you, I hear you say you are the heir and you are the what? The hot, hot of nations, what to me? So you have to understand the human nature and manage it. Some of you have married the wrong person. How many realize that somebody not you has married the wrong person? Raise your hand, Raise your hand. Somebody you know but not you. You know of somebody but you back the wrong horse. When you have married the wrong person, what are you going to do? You have to use a lot of wisdom strategies, wisdom to care for yourself and to manage things. It can never fully be corrected, but it can be managed. Medical doctors do management of mistakes. Almost all the diseases are simply managed of infections in which the animal that is causing the infection is actually killed, not even that the sickness is, but the animal that the bacteria that is causing is killed. Every other sickness that's managed asthma, they have the medicine that keeps opening the thing every time you they have something that hypertension, they have something that makes you we we you know, or something that expands your blood. So you have to take it every day. Ask my God to take it every day. Sickle cell disease will give you folic acid to help the blood cells every day and then try not to get malaria. This this that, that you are OK. What other sickness again is there mental sickness? Take this medicine every day. See they'll be growing a little further back. It cools down the symptoms that the blood disease that when a mad person is cured, there is a small one left. Frightening little children is left. The one for frightening little children is still dead, isn't it? When it comes to epilepsy, they just manage it. When it comes to cancer, they just take out the lung. But you see that the cancer is. So that's why someone said, oh, I had cancer, I've had operation and so I'm healed. I'm cured. Then a few years later I said the person is dead because the person wasn't cured. They were just managing things to keep mind. Most things, most diseases are like that. Managing of the mistake. You can't cut off. You cannot cut off everything. One day one of my persons have cancer and it was in his leg and they said they were going to cut off. I said don't cut off the leg, check the scan and see whether the concise anyway. But I said that he's got cancer, he's going to die unless God feels he's going to die. So why do you cut off the leg then the last few weeks of his life without leg, he'll be more depressed. He don't take care, he'll not come from the operation. So they went and did a scan. When they did a scan, there was cancer also in the braces. Now I'm going to remove the head. What are you going to do? So it's about managing the problem. A lot of ticket you cannot see, so have these glasses. So some people will be putting on glasses, others without. OK, then they have something contact lens or laser. Every sickness. Why you mention the secret is some kind of management something, not something that you take out of the person. So your marriage, you cannot take it out. Your child with someone cannot remove him from the world. You have to find wisdom to manage the thing you have created or what has come to be. Yeah, blind define the Brill for them to be able to type and to read. You know, deaf and dumb. They find this area to hear some sounds, you know, get a white cane to help the blind people to move around death and gram. They have some. I went to the death and gram school and I was I saw the children. Then they were all they all came around and they said, would you like this? And then this is how how are you? I'm fine. This means I'm fine in English in in Korean is a different language. But how are how how are you? I'm fine if you meet everything. They have a web for everywhere. They have 155000 words this this, whatever. They have different. I mean, you cannot kill the big but expect to school for that. And now this language, this every kind of mistake is some kind of arrangement. I sat in my office with Stevie Wonder. He used to be one that he was sitting by me and I was talking with him, you know, and I look at it. Then he said, you know, when we're going 7, He asked his personal friend, is he tall? What is he like? Is he a bit like Bishop Noel Jones is his name Because he could feel me. You know, it's like and it's like a million men, you understand, But he cannot show it. So managing, managing. And you ask how does he see? How does he know this is I can marry this person. I mean, if you are blind, you may have to find a new person. I want to feel you. Can you stand here, please? And you get a lady. So stand is the bottom big. Let me see this how you get a delighted as a blind person. But if you don't develop certain strategies to manage the whole problem that you have created, you cannot. So a lot of problems, wisdom, wisdom, wisdom. And so you need to get into the wisdom of words. I say, look, these people, they keep talking. Let me send these guys away and I'll give everything so that I can fulfill the will. Of course. What wisdom key does God give you in the midst of your difficulty, financial, this marital, whatever. There are wisdom keys that come in to have to what kind of man have you married? There's a way to stay with him. There's a way to you be surprised. There's a way to tame him. There are people who have your same type of husband. They are able to tame. He's like a dog. The same time you don't like, at the same time there are people with the water, but they are able to stay with him Water. There are people that wife you say you cannot stay with. There are people with the water. Water. They are able to find a way to stay with her. Smiling. Yeah, through wisdom keys. Yeah, Wisdom keys, Strategies and especially the strategy of understanding human behavior and reactions. This message continues on the next track. Keep listening.