Apostle Femi Lazarus

Jun 25, 2026 • 46 min

Jun 25, 2026 • 1h 1m

PROPHETIC PRAYER CONTACT || 25TH JUNE 2026

Jun 24, 2026 • 1h 10m

Jun 24, 2026 • 2h 4m

Are vulnerable men becoming scarce? Has society stopped caring about the men and the boy child? In this thought-provoking episode of The Declassified Podcast, we explore the growing crisis surrounding male vulnerability, emotional expression, and the challenges facing men and boys in today's world. Why do many men suffer in silence? Why are boys often taught to suppress their emotions? What happens when strength is defined by the absence of vulnerability? From mental health and relationships to societal expectations and identity, this conversation unpacks the realities many men face but rarely discuss openly. This episode is not about competition between genders—it's about understanding the unique struggles of men and boys, creating healthier conversations, and encouraging a culture where vulnerability is seen as courage, not weakness. Whether you're a man, a parent, a mentor, or someone seeking to better understand the male experience, this discussion offers valuable insights that deserve to be heard. Join the conversation in the comments: Do you think society cares enough about men and the boy child? What does healthy male vulnerability look like to you? #TheDeclassifiedPodcast #MensMentalHealth #BoyChild #MaleVulnerability #MentalHealthAwareness #Masculinity #MenMatter #Podcast #SelfDevelopment #Relationships

Jun 20, 2026 • 1h 4m

WHAT HAPPY COUPLES DO DIFFERENTLY This insightful episode of The Declassified features Femi Lazarus in conversation with Pastor Segun Odeyemi and Joy Odeyemi as they unpack the intentional principles and habits that distinguish thriving marriages from those that struggle. The discussion emphasizes that a successful marriage is not built on prayer alone, but on a healthy partnership between spiritual growth, wisdom, intentionality, and consistent daily effort. Key Highlights: The Choice of Marriage (0:27 - 1:13): A candid discussion on why many people enter marriage based on religious expectations, societal pressure, or external influences rather than genuine compatibility, often leading to long-term dissatisfaction and regret. Identifying Red Flags (5:57 - 6:44): Here, it was stressed that behavioral patterns—such as how a partner handles anger, disappointment, correction, or conflict—are often visible early in a relationship and should never be ignored. The Power of Intentionality & Vulnerability (21:26 - 25:10): A powerful conversation on the importance of being unapologetically vulnerable—setting aside pride and ego to communicate needs, expectations, and concerns effectively, even in sensitive areas such as intimacy and conflict resolution. Effort as a Pillar (39:41 - 42:25): The assertion that when effort ends, the decline of a marriage becomes inevitable. The speakers emphasize that maintaining attraction, connection, and care requires ongoing, intentional investment from both partners. The Balance of Honor and Friendship (44:19 - 47:53): A unique perspective on marriage as a delicate dance between honor (respect, reverence, and intentional value) and friendship (companionship, playfulness, and genuine enjoyment of one another). The Impact of Childhood Examples (52:43 - 56:32): A discussion on how our upbringing and the relationship models we observed—both healthy and unhealthy—often shape our beliefs, expectations, and responses in adult relationships. When to Walk Away (1:00:26 - 1:02:18): A thoughtful perspective on irreconcilable differences, particularly in situations involving threats to life, physical or emotional abuse, persistent infidelity, or a fundamental misalignment of core values. This conversation serves as a practical guide for anyone seeking to build, strengthen, heal, or sustain a meaningful relationship. It reminds us that with wise counsel, intentional effort, honest communication, and a commitment to growth, marriage can become a beautiful, fulfilling, and lasting testimony. Share your thoughts in the comments below. If this conversation blessed you, don't forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs it. #TheDeclassified #Marriage #Relationships #Love #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #RelationshipGoals #Communication #HealthyRelationships #Family #FemiLazarus #SegunOdeyemi #JoyOdeyemi

Jun 17, 2026 • 2h 42m

This video, titled "WHAT DO WE DO WITH MEN'S VULNERABILITY?" hosted by Femi Lazarus, is a raw and honest discussion about the challenges faced by men in today’s society. The panelists delve into the societal pressures that discourage male emotional expression, the impact of upbringing, and the often-unspoken struggles of providing for a family. The participants debunk the lie that men shouldn't show emotion or cry (1:58). They discuss how this cultural conditioning often leads to emotional disconnection within families. The Impact of Upbringing: A significant portion of the conversation explores the trauma passed down through generations (2:10). Many men are shown to be fighting hard to avoid becoming the version of the fathers they experienced growing up (2:16, 1:21:16). Financial Pressures and Marriage: The panel addresses how financial instability creates a "scarcity" of marriageable men (5:03). They discuss the toxic expectation that a man's value is purely tied to his financial capacity and how this pressure can break marriages (7:44, 26:08). The Hidden Struggles: The speakers share personal, vulnerable stories—including moments of suicidal ideation and extreme poverty (2:11:00, 2:03:07)—to highlight that many men are suffering in silence, fearing that vulnerability will be seen as weakness or used against them (3:31, 1:59:04). The Need for Support: The discussion concludes with a call to action for society, churches, and partners to create safer spaces for men to express themselves, rather than viewing them as "functional providers" (2:11:42, 2:15:00). WHAT DO WE DO WITH MEN'S VULNERABILITY? In this deep-dive conversation, Femi Lazarus and his guests unpack the often-ignored topic of men's mental health and vulnerability. This discussion covers the societal expectations placed on men, the trauma of fatherhood, and the necessity of empathy. Timestamps: 0:00 - Introduction: Why we are talking about men 1:56 - The lies society tells men about emotions 2:16 - Dealing with the trauma of our fathers 5:03 - Why are good men becoming scarce? 7:44 - The "poverty trap" and its effect on marriage 23:07 - Do women see potential in men? 31:30 - Surviving the lockdown and financial struggle 42:46 - The problem with "fake it until you make it" 1:11:11 - Managing anger and breaking cycles 1:16:40 - The statistics of male loneliness and mental health 1:58:02 - The global agenda against men 2:03:07 - A personal story of near-suicide 2:12:10 - The silent struggles of the "provider" 2:24:34 - An appeal to families and religious institutions 2:30:43 - Why church counseling isn't marriage counseling 2:39:59 - Final thoughts and closing

Jun 14, 2026 • 4h 8m

FESTIVAL OF LIFE || ROYAL SUNDAY || 14TH JUNE 2026

Jun 13, 2026 • 4h 16m

FESTIVAL OF LIFE || DAY 4 || 13TH JUNE 2026

Jun 12, 2026 • 5h 22m

FESTIVAL OF LIFE || DAY 3 - EVENING SESSION || 12TH JUNE 2026

Jun 12, 2026 • 2h 42m

FESTIVAL OF LIFE || DAY 3 - MORNING SESSION || ISM GRADUATION CEREMONY || 12TH JUNE 2026

Jun 11, 2026 • 4h 41m

FESTIVAL OF LIFE || DAY 2 || 11TH JUNE 2026

Jun 10, 2026 • 4h 21m

FESTIVAL OF LIFE 2026 || DAY ONE || 10TH JUNE 2026

Jun 6, 2026 • 1h 6m

FROM CLASSROOM TO UNEMPLOYMENT: WHAT WENT WRONG? Are Nigerian universities preparing students for the future—or preparing them for unemployment? In this thought-provoking episode of Declassified, we sit down with tech entrepreneur and founder of Harvoxx TechHub, Stuart Ezekiel Jr., to unpack the deep-rooted challenges within Nigeria's education system, the growing disconnect between certificates and competence, and the emerging risks and opportunities of Artificial Intelligence. From outdated curricula and graduate unemployment to data privacy, digital exploitation, and the future of work, this conversation challenges conventional thinking and asks difficult questions about the systems shaping our society. If you're a student, graduate, educator, policymaker, entrepreneur, or simply concerned about the future of Africa, this episode is for you. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Introduction: Survival Culture vs Growth Mindset 02:47 – Why Employers Struggle to Find Talent 05:29 – The Education System's Biggest Flaw 11:18 – Are Certificates Still Valuable? 13:07 – Why Innovation Faces Resistance 18:06 – The Comfort Zone Trap 21:05 – The Survival Cycle Holding Graduates Back 25:34 – Is Educational Failure Accidental or Strategic? 28:22 – The Power Dynamics Behind Institutional Weakness 32:37 – Artificial Intelligence: Opportunity or Threat? 36:00 – Data Privacy, AI, and Digital Exploitation 39:28 – Protecting Your Digital Footprint 44:18 – The Evolution of Online Fraud 51:43 – Faith, Influence, and National Development 01:03:00 – Final Reflections and Closing Thoughts What do you think is the biggest reason graduates struggle to succeed after school? Share your thoughts in the comments. #DeclassifiedPodcast #NigeriaEducation #GraduateUnemployment #FutureOfWork #ArtificialIntelligence #DataPrivacy #CareerDevelopment #AfricanYouth #EducationReform #TechInAfrica #StuartEzekiel #FemiLazarus

Jun 5, 2026 • 4h 28m

HOLYGHOST EXPERIENCE IBADAN || 5TH JUNE 2025

Jun 3, 2026 • 1h 16m

THE CRISIS OF THE MODERN MAN What happens when a man achieves success but still feels empty? In this profound episode of The Declassified, Femi Lazarus and Ejimi Olufukeji explore one of the most pressing issues of our time: the identity crisis facing modern men. Beyond money, status, and achievement lies a deeper question—who are you becoming? This conversation examines the pursuit of purpose, the burden of loneliness, the importance of authentic relationships, and the shift from living transactionally to living intentionally. From legacy and personal growth to marriage, mentorship, and self-discovery, this episode challenges men to rethink success and embrace a more meaningful path. Whether you're navigating career pressures, relationship challenges, or a search for deeper purpose, this conversation offers timeless wisdom for becoming the man you were created to be. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Introduction: Legacy Over Materialism 03:32 – Why People Perform Success 06:57 – Wealth Is a Tool, Not a Trophy 11:39 – The Defining Question: Who Are You? 12:26 – The Power of Presence and Intentional Growth 17:28 – Transactional vs. Relational Living 21:12 – How Hardship Shapes Society 29:01 – The Responsibility of Contribution 38:03 – Why Options Reveal Character 39:56 – Jethro, Moses, and the Need for Mentorship 50:32 – Navigating Loneliness as a Man 55:49 – The Three Pillars of Marriage: Chemistry, Compatibility & Commitment 01:01:56 – Power, Character, and Human Nature 01:05:55 – Advice for Men Facing an Internal Void 01:10:18 – The Unspoken Rules of Communication in Marriage What do you think is the greatest challenge facing men today? Share your thoughts in the comments below. #TheDeclassified #ModernMan #Masculinity #Purpose #PersonalGrowth #MensMentalHealth #Relationships #Marriage #Leadership #Legacy #FemiLazarus #SelfDevelopment

May 30, 2026 • 1h 25m

In this powerful episode of the Classified Podcast, host Femi Lazarus sits with Rantiade Benson-Idahosa, daughter of the late Archbishop Benson Idahosa. The conversation explores the tension between modern religious practices and a deeper “kingdom-centered” way of life rooted in authenticity, responsibility, and spiritual transformation. 00:20 – Authenticity and Identity Rantiade shares her journey of embracing authenticity despite the weight of her family legacy. She speaks on resisting external expectations and discovering identity as a direct expression of God, rather than societal labels or inherited pressure. 11:28 – Spirituality vs Religion The discussion shifts toward the difference between simply believing in Christ and becoming a reflection of divine nature. They explore the idea of spirituality as transformation—where a believer’s presence should impact environments rather than rely on fear-based religious systems. 32:37 – The Bible and Interpretation A deep conversation unfolds around how the Bible is understood today. Rontiad describes it as a “kingdom manual” rather than a tool for rigid religious control, emphasizing the importance of personal experience with God over misinterpreted doctrine. 41:43 – The Problem with Modern Church Culture Both speaker and guest critique aspects of modern church culture, particularly in Nigeria. They address concerns about performance-driven ministry, fear-based teachings, and financial exploitation, arguing that it has shifted focus away from true spiritual responsibility. 44:38 – 01:16:26 – The Call to Kingdom Living The central message of the conversation emerges here: believers are called to actively influence society through governance, entertainment, innovation, and culture. Faith is framed not as escape from the world, but transformation of it. The episode closes with a shared conviction that Christianity must evolve beyond fear-based systems and return to foundational kingdom principles. The focus shifts toward righteousness, personal responsibility, and becoming solutions within society rather than merely preparing for heaven. True kingdom living is not passive belief—it is active transformation of self, society, and systems.

May 27, 2026 • 1h 1m

This discussion explores the psychological impact of colonialism on African identity, culture, and self-perception. It examines how colonial systems extended beyond political control to influence language, education, beauty standards, religion, leadership, and the way many Africans came to view themselves and the world around them. The conversation looks into how generations were conditioned to associate Western culture with superiority while gradually disconnecting from their own history, traditions, and indigenous systems of thought. From accents and appearance to governance, media, and social validation, the effects of colonial influence continue to shape many aspects of modern African society. Through history, psychology, and cultural analysis, this episode questions whether Africa truly achieved liberation or simply inherited a new form of mental dependence. It challenges viewers to reflect on identity, self-worth, and the lasting influence of colonial structures that may still exist beneath the surface today. This is more than a conversation about history — it is a discussion about mindset, consciousness, and the ongoing struggle for cultural and psychological freedom in Africa.

May 24, 2026 • 2h 56m

FORGE CONFERENCE || BUILDING CORRECTLY: CREED, CONDUCT AND CLARITY || AFTERNOON SESSION

May 23, 2026 • 2h 37m

FORGE CONFERENCE || BUILDING CORRECTLY: CREED, CONDUCT AND CLARITY

May 23, 2026 • 1h 4m

SOMETHING HUGE IS COMING: IS THE CREATIVE ERA OVER? Artificial Intelligence is no longer coming—it's here. The question is no longer whether AI will change the creative industry, but whether creatives are prepared for what comes next. In this thought-provoking episode of The Declassified, Femi Lazarus sits down with photographer, creative thinker, and visual storyteller Yemi Kings to explore the unprecedented disruption AI is bringing to photography, design, filmmaking, and the wider creative economy. From the emotional pain of watching years of hard-earned skills become automated, to the rise of data as the world's most valuable resource, this conversation examines one of the most important questions of our generation: What happens when machines can create faster, cheaper, and sometimes better than humans? Together, they explore the future of creativity, the opportunities hidden within disruption, and how individuals can remain relevant in an AI-driven world. Whether you're a creative professional, entrepreneur, student, or simply curious about the future, this episode will challenge how you think about technology, work, and human value. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Introduction: Is This the End of Traditional Creativity? 00:30 – Man vs Machine: Lessons from AI Evolution 07:26 – Is Portrait Photography Dying? 11:30 – AI, Reality, and Human Perception 14:50 – The Psychological Impact of Creative Displacement 23:50 – How Close Are We to an AI-Driven Future? 28:20 – The Pain of Watching Skills Become Obsolete 36:50 – What Should Young Creatives Do Now? 39:20 – Why Human Experiences Still Matter 46:10 – AI, Relationships, and Everyday Life 51:00 – The Ubuntu Project: Creativity Meets Technology 57:15 – Adapting, Reinventing, and Moving Forward 01:03:08 – Data: The Most Powerful Asset on Earth Is AI a threat to human creativity, or the greatest tool ever created? Share your thoughts in the comments below. #TheDeclassified #ArtificialIntelligence #AI #FutureOfWork #Creativity #Photography #Filmmaking #DigitalTransformation #Technology #Innovation #FutureOfCreativity #Storytelling #YiKing #FemiLazarus